Many lovers choose Autumn to held
their wedding in Nanning. But how many people still have memory about
traditional wedding. In generally, one wedding have 4 parts, including Choice
Object, Espousal, Course, Appreciation, which have SOMEdetails.
Choice Object:
when sons or daughters grow up, their
parents have to choose their yokemate, but the most importance must be matched
for marriage, then considerly, he/she is beauty or ungly. After parents permit
targets, they look one tomathchmaking.
Espousal:
The Boy's family invite the
fortunetelling to select the lucky day to held the party for espousal(Dinggen
in China). First boy's family retain the person to writes note on the right of
red paper that there isboy's birthday time and it is same of the girl, and the
account of the wordmust be equal, moreover, it must be double, expressing the
pair of couple. When espousal, the marriageformly startes.
Then both families talk about the money, betrothal gift,dot and choice the
wedding day. On moneythat give girl's familly was discussed strictlythe
total.If what happen on this matter, matchmaker will help to make a match.
Betrothal gift is the present that boy's familly give girl's family.
Generally, the rich family send "sanshan" ( three animals including
racoon dog, pangolin, partridge); "sanhai" (choice seafood including
sleeve-fish, shrimp, cuttle; and 50 kg rice, 50 kg chicken or pork, 50 kg
wine.But the regular is not strict, just follow the life level of family.
Dot is the material that girl's family
give. the rich family send 8 desks that is covered by the gift such as biscuit,
cake, fruit, candy; and land, sheep, cattle and so on.
then, decide the day of wedding.
Course:
It canbe divided into 5 parts: singing,
crying, welcomed, entertainment, entrance,
Before girl marrying, she invites his
good friend or close relations to accompany her in her room. they get together
totalk of their emotion, or bless the marriage happiness. good friends orsisters
around girl and singsong until the candle is out.
On the wedding day, the bride begins
crying, but sometime the bride's elder sister can replace. the content is about
yearning parents foster and appreciating relations helping. it is most inviting
that bride abuse the matchmaker's greed and cheating parents, especially when
bride hates macthmaker. it is most galling that bride scolds bridegroom in
public. it continues until bride leaves home.
when bridegroom go to receive bride, he
must look for one unmarried man who is good at talking as his groomsman who
encourages bridegroom on the one hand, and help bridegroom answer those
questions on the banquet on the other hand.
There are two good luck women who have
husband and children, one takes chargeto guide bride out of room to do
obeisance ancient and universe, and go to litter; the other answer for
splashing flowers, when bride out of room, she must open umbrella and take rice
to upcast, then fall down on the head of the bride meaning the new family like
rice procreation. bride can't walk down the litter in the route until
bridegroom accepts her.
when the litter come the bridegroom's
home, firecracker was burnt to celebrate bride. An elder women guides bride out
of litter and take her into hall where bridegroom is waiting for. bride and
bridegroom genuflct three times then into the new room. the woman use
needlework to slot bride and bridegroom clothes together, meaning life for
ever, then spouse drinks wine each other.at that time, they become true couple.
The next day moring, matchmaker guides
bride and bridegroom into hall to make a courtesy call fo ancient, elder and
sister-in-law, which is called "Baishuangchao".
Appeciation:
After wedding, couple pay a formal visit parents-in-law and relations, and held
banquet that just invites relations. couple must thank the matchmaker with
gifts.